Athletics

Parent Coach Communication

Coaching, like parenting, is both rewarding and tough. When your son becomes involved in our athletic program, you have a right, as his parent, to understand what expectations are placed on him. We hope the following guidelines will help establish healthy relationships between all of our parents and coaches and, in turn, help all of us to better serve our student-athletes. We can’t wait to see you out supporting our boys. Eagles Fly High!

List of 5 items.

  • Communication You Should Expect from the Gonzaga Athletic Department

    • Game schedules, locations, and venue information (updated on team webpages)
    • Early dismissal policies and eligibility requirements
      (Reminder: students must be in school by 11:05am to be eligible for practice or games. Any lateness for any reason must be properly communicated by a student's parents to the Office of Student Services for a student-athlete to be eligible for that day's events. )
    • A copy of the WCAC Code for High School Athletics
    • Directions to athletic events
    • Overview of the department’s philosophy and policies to be shared at the start of each season when rosters are finalized
    • Athletic training and performance resources found on this page -- including the following:
      • DC Health Form
      • Injury reporting procedures
      • Steps for treatment and rehab
      • Expectations for return-to-play
    • Weight room and training room procedures
  • Communication You Should Expect from Your Son’s Coach

    • Coaching philosophy - typically shared in a pre-season meeting with parents either in person or virtually
    • Expectations for all student-athletes, not just your son, including academic expectations 
    • Practice and game schedules and changes to either with as much advance notice as possible
    • Clear communication ladder:
      1. Player-to-coach first — especially for absences, scheduling, or questions
      2. Parent involvement if needed, only after player-coach communication
    • Emphasis on team-first communication — no discussions about other athletes
  • Appropriate Concerns to Discuss with Coaches

    • Your son’s mental or physical well-being
    • Behavior concerns or academic progress
    • Clarification of team expectations
    • Note: Advice for how your son can improve can blur into a discussion about playing time and team strategy. These conversations are best when initiated by the player, not the parent.
  • Concerns Not Appropriate to Discuss with Coaches

    • Playing time
    • Team strategy or game plans
    • Play calling or lineup decisions
    • Other student-athletes’ ability, playing time or injuries
  • Setting Up a Conference

    While we encourage healthy dialogue, there are proper channels parents are asked to follow:
    1. Have your son speak with the coach first
    2. If the issue persists, schedule a meeting — do not approach coaches before or after a game or practice
    3. If further discussion is needed, contact the Director of Athletics to set up a meeting
Parent Guidelines (The 10 Expectations)
  1. Realize that as parents, you represent Gonzaga College High School
  2. Recognize the true goal of high school sports: physical, mental, moral, social, and emotional development
  3. Demonstrate good sportsmanship, integrity, and respect for all
  4. It is in the best interest for each program for parents not to attend practices
  5. Understand that playing time is not guaranteed
  6. Please refrain from contacting coaches or players before, during, or immediately after games regarding the results of the competition
  7. Please be mindful that what we say about others can impact our players, their families, and the program
  8. Refrain from using noisemakers during indoor contests 
  9. Be courteous to visiting teams and to officials by respecting their judgment and integrity - keep our environment family-friendly
  10. Be modest in victory and gracious in defeat
These guidelines reflect the Jesuit ideals and philosophies that are deeply rooted in our Gonzaga tradition. We encourage each student-athlete to play and compete for his brothers - past, present, and future - for the greater glory of God. 
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